Posts Tagged ‘New Year’

Squeaky monkeys and Light

MonkeyMy husband and I rarely have enough cash to buy each other traditional Christmas gifts, if he’s lucky I manage to put a bottle of his favorite scotch in his stocking. However, we do make sure our girls are able to get some little things for each of us. This year we decided to keep it interesting by asking our 2 year-old what she wanted to get us, promising to buy exactly what she said. So I asked her what she wanted to get her daddy and she said, without hesitation, that she wanted to get her dad A TOY! And then she added, with absolute glee, “a squeaky toy!” If you’ve experienced my husband’s relationship with his girls you would know that this fits perfectly into their love of goofy, noisy, silly stuff. If it burps, farts or makes a face they absolutely lose their minds. He calls our youngest his Monkey Boo, so we found a squeaky monkey in the dog toy section at Target and wrapped it up. It was perfection.

On Christmas morning I unwrapped a beautiful candle set from my little one. My husband tells me that when he asked her what she wanted to give me she replied, again without hesitation, Light. My two-year-old gave me Light. If only she understood how profoundly she has brightened and lightened my life.

We celebrate solstice at my Universalist Unitarian church, which often includes a meditation on absorbing the peaceful dark, actively waiting for the light. For me, it beautifully compliments the quiet manger scene many of us contemplate at Christmas. I feel like it mirrors my struggle with chronic pain just as perfectly. I am trying every day to make peace with the dark, while finding the light wherever I can.

So many of us create hope and light for our friends, family, community, and even ourselves, during this winter time. However, it is rarely met with choirs of angels singing praises. This year we should be that choir of angels for each other. Let’s be loud in our support, gratitude and love.

I’m going to regress a bit into my 2-year-old brain, the one that recognizes what is funny, what is beautiful and what is important, without hesitation. I hope you all got a bit of light for the new year, it is a gift to be treasured.

 

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